一、我可以接受失敗，但絕對(duì)不能接受未奮斗過的自己?？v有疾風(fēng)起，人生不言棄。 ——宮崎駿

I can accept failure， but I can't accept not trying. In spite of the strong wind， life never gives up. -- hayao miyazaki

二、殘疾人面前不說健康，婚姻不幸人面前不說幸福，工作失意人面前不說成就，人生在世，顧忌別人顏面，給自己留條后路。

the disabled do not say health， unhappy marriage in front of people do not say happiness， frustrated work in front of people do not say achievement， life， worry about others face， to leave a way back for themselves.

三、突然發(fā)現(xiàn)，原來虛驚一場(chǎng)是人世間最美好的成語。-- 韓寒

suddenly found that the original false alarm is the world's most beautiful idiom. - han han

四、你不是人民幣，不可能人人喜歡你，人是活給自己看的，你所做的一切不能讓每個(gè)人都滿意，不要為了討好別人而丟失自己。

You are not RMB， it is impossible for everyone to like you， people are living for themselves， what you do can not make everyone satisfied， do not lose yourself in order to please others.

五、不要把別人想得太壞，也不要把別人想得太好，都是凡人。

don't think of others too bad， don't think of others too good， are mortal.

六、你無法阻止任何人對(duì)你作出差的評(píng)價(jià)，而你，要給予自己多一點(diǎn)點(diǎn)的溫情。

You can't stop anyone from judging you badly， and you have to give yourself a little more affection.

七、修得豆腐嘴，藏得刀子心。自嘲是最高境界，而不是嘲笑別人。

repair tofu mouth， hide the knife heart. It is the highest state to laugh at yourself， not at others.

八、真正的愛情，要懂得珍惜：沒有誰和誰是天生就注定在一起的。一輩子其實(shí)不長。能遇心愛的人，是多么幸運(yùn)的事。

Real love， to know how to cherish: no one and who is born to be together. A lifetime is not long. How lucky you are to meet the one you love.

九、先努力讓自己發(fā)光，對(duì)的人才能迎著光而來。

first efforts to let their own light， the right person can face the light and come.

十、別抱怨，抱怨就是無能；別依賴，沒有免費(fèi)的肩膀；別退縮，落井下石的人很多；別氣餒，氣餒就是否定自己；別低頭，地上沒有黃金只有垃圾。

Don't complain， complaining is incompetent; Don't rely， there is no free shoulder; Don't hold back， there are a lot of people who hit people when they are down; Don't get discouraged， getting discouraged is denying yourself; Don't bow your head， there is no gold on the ground only garbage.

十一、我們一生只需要去做三件事：一、知道如何去選擇二、明白如何去堅(jiān)持三、懂得如何去珍惜。

We only need to do three things in life: one， know how to choose two， know how to insist three， know how to cherish.

十二、凡塵榮辱，其實(shí)只是一場(chǎng)戲。一個(gè)修行者要有足夠的禪定，才可以走出人生逼仄的路徑，看云林綠野，落雁平沙。

in fact， is only a play. Only when a practitioner has enough meditation can he walk out of the narrow path of life， look at the clouds， forests and green fields， and drop wild geese to smooth the sand.

十三、你不用對(duì)每個(gè)過客負(fù)責(zé)，也不用對(duì)每個(gè)路人說教?！?韓寒 《后會(huì)無期》

You don't have to be responsible for every traveler， you don't have to preach to every passerby. -- The Continent by Han Han

十四、有事情是要說出來的，不要等著對(duì)方去領(lǐng)悟，因?yàn)閷?duì)方不是你，不知道你想要什么，等到最后只能是傷心和失望，尤其是感情。

something is to say， don't wait for the other side to understand， because the other side is not you， do not know what you want， until the end can only be sad and disappointed， especially the feelings.

十五、生活要懂得順?biāo)拢瑢幙奢斒屡c人，不必執(zhí)拗于心。正確地選擇與取舍，人一生必修的功課，要讀懂真實(shí)的自己，駕馭好自己的人生，別讓心迷了路。

life to know how to go with the flow， would rather lose things and people， not stubborn in the heart. Correct choice and choice， a person's life compulsory course， to understand the real yourself， control their own life， don't let the heart lost.

十六、這個(gè)世界很浮華，不要走得太快，有時(shí)候需要停一停，靜一靜，想一想，沉淀思緒后，重新出發(fā)，你一定要相信，沒有到不了的明天！

the world is very flashy， don't go too fast， sometimes need to stop， be quiet， think about， precipitation thoughts， start again， you must believe that there is no tomorrow!