一、想要活的開心，就不要與傻瓜論長短，不跟傻瓜講道理，不和三觀不同的人爭論是非。

If you want to live a happy life， don't talk length with fools， don't reason with fools， and don't argue with those who have different views.

二、越長大越明白一個(gè)道理，越是虛情假意越是表面熱情，越是真情實(shí)意越是內(nèi)斂深沉，無需言表。

The more grow up the more understand a truth， the more fake the more surface enthusiasm， the more sincere the more deep， without words.

三、長大了，總有那么一兩次，你會(huì)為重視的人奔跑，因?yàn)槭菍Φ娜耍呗氛娴膩聿患啊?

When you grow up， there are always once or twice， you will run for the person you value， because it is the right person， it is really too late to walk.

四、成年人的世界，不存在永恒的靠山，你最強(qiáng)的靠山就是你的努力和獨(dú)立。

In the adult world， there is no eternal backer. Your strongest backer is your efforts and independence.

五、誓言再美，也比不上一顆融入生命的心；承諾再多，也比不了一直心疼你的人。

Oath again beautiful， than a heart into the heart of life; Promise more， also not than have loved you.

六、稍微努力一點(diǎn)就什么都有了，可惜你懶啊，不自律還癡心。

A little bit of effort will have everything， but you lazy ah， not self-discipline is still infatuated.

七、不是所有人都喜歡你真實(shí)的樣子，偶爾虛偽一下還是很有必要的，畢竟在當(dāng)今這個(gè)社會(huì)，我們混得都不容易。

Not everyone likes you for who you really are， and it's important to be a little fake once in a while. After all， we don't get along so well in today's society.

八、生活本不苦，苦的是我們欲望過多；人心本無累，累的是放不下的太多。

Life is not bitter， bitter is our desire too much; The heart is not tired， tired is not put too much.

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九、所有生活的美學(xué)旨在抵抗一個(gè)字：忙。

All the aesthetics of life are designed to resist one word: busyness.

十、愛情和友情都一樣，等你足夠強(qiáng)大，相應(yīng)的圈子會(huì)主動(dòng)來吸納你，無需自作悲憫，更無須刻意討好，你需要的是自我豐盈與精彩。

Love and friendship are the same， when you are strong enough， the corresponding circle will take the initiative to absorb you， no self-pity， no need to deliberately please， what you need is self-enrichment and wonderful.

十一、到了某個(gè)年紀(jì)，就不愿去討好，和誰聊得來就多說幾句，聊不來就離得遠(yuǎn)一點(diǎn)。

When you get to a certain age， you don't want to curry favor with anyone you can talk to. If you can't talk to them， you should stay away from them.

十二、余生，只想做個(gè)俗人，往事清零，不恨不怨，不爭不斗，只要開心就好。

For the rest of my life， I just want to be a Philistine， clear of the past， do not hate， do not fight， as long as happy.

十三、靠自己，才能抵擋風(fēng)雨，靠自己，才能解決難題，只有靠自己，才能說話硬氣、做事霸氣，才能鼓足勇氣，不失骨氣！

Rely on yourself， can withstand the wind and rain， rely on yourself， can solve the problem， only rely on yourself， can speak tough， do domineering， can muster up courage， do not lose backbone!

十四、有些事，不是不在意，而是在意了又能怎樣。人生沒有如果，只有后果和結(jié)果。成熟，就是用微笑來面對一切小事。

Some things， not don't care， but care about how. Life is not if， only the consequences and results. Maturity is to face all the little things with a smile.

十五、可以允許自己適度徘徊和偶爾想念，但絕不可以再次回頭奔向錯(cuò)誤的路。

Allow yourself to linger and occasionally miss， but never go back to the wrong way again.

十六、永遠(yuǎn)不要去羨慕別人的生活，即使那個(gè)人看起來快樂富足。永遠(yuǎn)不要去評價(jià)別人是否幸福，即使那個(gè)人看起來孤獨(dú)無助。幸福如人飲水，冷暖自知。你不是我，怎知我走過的路，心中的樂與苦。子非魚，焉知魚之樂？

Never envy someone else's life， even if that person seems happy and prosperous. Never judge if someone is happy， even if that person seems lonely and helpless. Happiness is like drinking water， we know how warm and cold we are. You are not me， how do I know the road I have walked， heart joy and pain. If a child is not a fish， how can one know its pleasure？