一、時(shí)間會(huì)刺破青春表面的彩飾，會(huì)在美人的額上掘深深淺槽。我還是很喜歡你，像風(fēng)走了八千里，不問歸期。我不想再喜歡你，像魚與鷹的愛情，遙遙無期。

time will pierce the adornment on the surface of youth and dig deep and shallow grooves on the forehead of beauty. I still like you very much， like the wind has gone eight thousand miles， do not ask the return date. I don't want to like you any more， like the love between the fish and the eagle， which is far away.

二、如果不能飛，那就跑； 如果跑不動(dòng)，那就走； 實(shí)在走不動(dòng)了，那就爬，爬不動(dòng)了，那就蛄蛹。無論做什么，都要勇往直前； 無論有多難，都要多堅(jiān)持一下。 (zhē teng)，才不辜負(fù)生命給予的上場(chǎng)機(jī)會(huì)。

If you can't fly， run; if you can't run， walk; if you can't really walk， climb， crawl， then the pupa. Whatever you do， go ahead bravely; no matter how difficult it is， stick to it more. Only by tossing and turning can we live up to the opportunities that life has given us.

三、愛情，還是心情，委屈，還是認(rèn)真，多少敷衍，多少卑微，一個(gè)錯(cuò)，錯(cuò)過一份認(rèn)真，凋零的心，錯(cuò)過的情，失去唯一的夢(mèng)，來世多少真，藏著多少情。

Love， or mood， grievance， or earnestness， how much perfunctory， how many humble， a mistake， missed a serious， withered heart， missed love， lost the only dream， how true the afterlife， how many feelings hidden.

四、其實(shí)真正陪你到老的，是那種沒太多意外，也是沒有當(dāng)初的心跳，卻是無論如何也是不離開你的人。從激情到親情，再?gòu)母袆?dòng)到感恩，從浪漫到相守。時(shí)間越久，越不愿離開你，這才叫愛人。

Actually， the people who really accompany you to old age are those who do not have too many accidents or original heartbeat， but who do not leave you anyway. From passion to affection， from touching to gratitude， from romance to being together. The longer the time， the more unwilling to leave you， this is called love.

五、飛花相思，燃盡塵埃，說不盡風(fēng)雨，看不透人生，走進(jìn)一個(gè)人的故事，藏著兩個(gè)人的夢(mèng)，來世的祝福，感悟的心，明白的錯(cuò)，總是無法表白。走錯(cuò)了路，要記得回頭；愛錯(cuò)了人，要懂得放手。人心都是相對(duì)的，以真換真；感情都是相互的，用心暖心。只是一起走過一段路而已，何必把懷念弄的比經(jīng)過還長(zhǎng)。

Acacia flying flowers， burning up the dust， endless storms and storms， can not see through life， into a person's story， hiding two people's dreams， the blessings of the afterlife， the heart of sentiment， understand the mistakes， always can not be expressed. If you go the wrong way， remember to turn back; if you love the wrong person， you should know how to let go. People's hearts are relative to each other， changing the truth from the truth; emotions are mutual， warm hearts with heart. It's just a long way to go together. Why do you miss it longer than it has been？

六、除了你自己，沒有人會(huì)明白你的故事里有過多少快樂或傷悲，這世上根本不存在感同身受，所以別傻傻的攤開傷口向別人訴苦，這世上多的是撒鹽的人，而不是醫(yī)生。

No one but yourself will understand how much happiness or sadness you have had in your story. There is no empathy in this world. So don't open your wound foolishly and complain to others. There are many Salters in this world， not doctors.

七、 你得有足夠的實(shí)力，你的原則和底線才會(huì)被人尊重。好像每次都是這樣，沒有例外，在我們最需要有一個(gè)人去依靠的時(shí)候，往往到最后都是自己一個(gè)人挺過去。

you have to have enough strength， your principles and bottom line will be respected. It seems that this is the case every time， without exception， when we need someone to rely on most， we often end up alone.

八、很多時(shí)候，麻煩都是想太多招來的，你的生活，有人來有人走很正常，何必把得失看得那么重，開心難過都是過，有人來了你不驚不喜，有人走了你不癢不痛，人活著都這個(gè)樣，你不能控制別人的想法，只能自己看輕一點(diǎn)，就算世界給你的全是利刃，你也要哈哈大笑的繼續(xù)走下去，這就是生活，每個(gè)人都一樣。

Most of the time， trouble comes from thinking too much. It's normal for someone to come to your life. Why do you take the gains and losses so seriously？ It's always sad and happy. You're not surprised when someone comes. You're not itchy or painful when someone leaves. People are alive. You can't control other people's ideas. You can only look down on them. Even if the world gives you a sharp edge， you should also ha. Laugh and go on. That's life. Everyone's the same.

九、過往浮沉，太多的憂郁讓人身心疲憊，太多的情感讓人折磨煎熬，在歲月安然的塵世間，為何不放下一段沉甸甸的累，讓自己輕松走一程！喜歡的歌，靜靜的聽，喜歡的人，遠(yuǎn)遠(yuǎn)的看，惟愿塵世安好，微笑著祝福明天會(huì)更美好。

Past ups and downs， too much melancholy makes people tired physically and mentally， too many emotions make people suffer， in the world of years， why not put down a heavy tired， let oneself walk easily! Like the song， listen quietly， like the people， from a distance， I wish the world is safe， smiling and wishing tomorrow will be better.

十、 一樣?xùn)|西，如你太想要，就會(huì)把它看得很大，甚至大到成了全世界，占據(jù)了你的全部心思。我的勸告是，最后無論你是否如愿以償，都要及時(shí)從中跳出來，如實(shí)地看清它在整個(gè)世界中的真實(shí)位置，亦即它在無限時(shí)空中的微不足道。這樣，你得到了不會(huì)忘乎所以，沒有得到也不會(huì)痛不欲生。

If you want something too much， you will see it as big as the whole world and occupy your whole mind. My advice is that in the end， whether you get what you want or not， you should jump out of it in time and see its real place in the world as a whole， that is， its insignificance in infinite space and time. In this way， you won't forget what you got， and you won't feel painful if you didn't get it.

十一、每個(gè)人都需要不斷的新的革命，并非驚天動(dòng)地，而是那回歸初心的簡(jiǎn)單、正直、與堅(jiān)持。Everyone needs constant new revolution， not earth-shaking， but the simplicity， integrity and perseverance of returning to the original mind.

十二、看淡了，天，無非陰晴；人，不過聚散；地，只是高低。滄海桑田，我心不驚；自然安穩(wěn)，隨緣自在;不悲不喜，便是晴天。人生，有多少計(jì)較，就有多少痛苦；學(xué)會(huì)放手，甘愿舍棄，才能真正的得到。

Looking dim， the sky is cloudy and sunny; people， but gather and disperse; the ground， just high and low. I am not alarmed by the vicissitudes of the sea; I am comfortable with nature; I am not sad or unhappy， it is sunny. Life， how much care， how much pain; learn to let go， willing to give up， can really get.

十三、無論做什么事，都不要拿自己的價(jià)值觀和生活方式去打擾別人的生活，甚至企圖改變別人，有時(shí)候微笑附和比激烈反駁會(huì)讓你更可愛。你是不是也覺得，為什么每個(gè)人看起來都過得那么好的樣子，只有你，糟糕得不像話。

Whatever you do， don't disturb other people's lives with your own values and lifestyle， or even try to change others. Sometimes smiling and agreeing will make you more lovely than fierce refutation. Do you also think that why everyone looks so good， only you， is terrible.

十四、每天用你最喜歡的方式做你最喜歡的事情，這是一種莫大的幸福。 然后，每天重復(fù)這種快樂的做事方式和做事心情，久而久之，形成習(xí)慣。 天長(zhǎng)日久，這種習(xí)慣就會(huì)成為性格，性格決定命運(yùn)。性格不是天生的，性格就是這樣培養(yǎng)出來的。 所以，要讓你的命運(yùn)出現(xiàn)轉(zhuǎn)機(jī)，就要找到自己最喜歡的事情。早安！

It's a great happiness to do your favorite things in your favorite way every day. Then， repeat this happy way of doing things and mood every day， and over time， form a habit. Over time， this habit will become character， which determines fate. Character is not innate. That's how it is cultivated. So， to turn your fortune around， you need to find your favorite things. Good morning!

十五、有一天你會(huì)明白，人不能太善良，因?yàn)槿酥粫?huì)挑軟柿子捏，如果事事都大度和寬容，別人也不會(huì)感激你，有時(shí)候應(yīng)該適當(dāng)有點(diǎn)脾氣，對(duì)待有些人真不能太溫柔和忍耐，過分善良會(huì)丟失自己的價(jià)值和尊嚴(yán)，過分善良也是一種傻。

one day you will understand that people can not be too kind， because people will only pick soft persimmon pinch， if everything is generous and tolerant， others will not appreciate you， sometimes should be appropriate to a little temper， some people really can not be too gentle and tolerant， too good will lose their value and dignity， too good is also a kind of folly.

十六、姑娘，不要逢人就掏心掏肺的，要知道有些人，面前心連心，背后動(dòng)腦筋。女人在愛情中需要安全感，其實(shí)男人也一樣。女人在談戀愛時(shí)表明心跡，更能男人愛得安心。不管是男人還是女人，深陷愛情的漩渦之中，都渴望有一個(gè)可以期許的未來。

Girls， don't pull out your heart and lungs when you meet people. You should know that some people have a heart-to-heart relationship in front of them and use their brains behind them. Women need security in love， as do men. Women show their feelings when they are in love， and men feel more at ease when they are in love. Whether men or women， deep in the whirlpool of love， are eager to have a promising future.