一、多要求自己，你會(huì)更加獨(dú)立，少要求別人，你會(huì)減少失望。寧愿花時(shí)間去修煉不完美的自己，也不要浪費(fèi)時(shí)間去期待完美的別人。

Ask more of yourself， you will be more independent， less of others， you will be less disappointed. It is better to spend time cultivating your imperfect self than to waste time expecting someone else to be perfect.

二、如果你總是抱著過去不放，那就別怪現(xiàn)在的人不和你一起走到未來。沒有人欠你，也沒有人應(yīng)該等你。

If you cling to the past， don't blame the present for not walking into the future with you. No one owes you， and no one should wait for you.

三、你活成別人喜歡的樣子，別人會(huì)喜歡你，但你不一定會(huì)喜歡自己。你活成自己開心的樣子，你一定喜歡自己，別人或許也會(huì)喜歡你。

If you live as others like， others will like you， but you may not like yourself. You must like yourself， and others may like you.

四、做事不需要人人都理解，只需盡職盡責(zé)，問心無愧；做人不需要人人都喜歡，只需盡心盡力，心安理得。

Do not need everyone to understand， just due diligence， a clear conscience; People do not need to be everyone like， just do your best， peace of mind.

五、總會(huì)有人說你好，也會(huì)有人說你不好，但只要做人做事問心無愧，就不必執(zhí)念于他人的評(píng)判。

There will always be those who say hello and those who say no， but as long as you do things with a clear conscience， you don't have to judge others.

六、等你的身體出了什么毛病，你就會(huì)意識(shí)到什么煩心事都是屁，都是吃飽了撐的，都是閑的，健康活著比什么都重要。

When you wait for something to go wrong with your body， you'll realize that everything you worry about is bullshit.

七、高潮時(shí)享受成就，低潮時(shí)享受人生，有心思時(shí)干有意義的活，沒心情時(shí)做有意思的事。

Enjoy achievement at high tide， enjoy life at low tide， do meaningful work when you are in the mind， do interesting things when you are not in the mood.

八、成長(zhǎng)的很大一部分，是接受。接受分道揚(yáng)鑣，接受世事無常，接受孤獨(dú)挫折，接受突如其來的無力感，接受自己的缺點(diǎn)。

A big part of growth is acceptance. Accept the parting of ways， accept the impermanence of things， accept the loneliness of setbacks， accept the sudden sense of powerlessness， accept their shortcomings.

九、一個(gè)人最好的生活狀態(tài)是，愛的時(shí)候不辜負(fù)自己的心，玩的時(shí)候不辜負(fù)路邊的風(fēng)景，睡覺的時(shí)候不辜負(fù)溫暖的床，一個(gè)人的時(shí)候不辜負(fù)自己。

A person's best life state is， love when not to live up to their heart， play when not to live up to the roadside scenery， sleep when not to live up to the warm bed， a person when not to live up to their own.

十、人在餓的時(shí)候會(huì)選擇不愛的食物，會(huì)在寂寞的時(shí)候選擇不愛的人，因?yàn)閺?qiáng)扭的瓜不甜，但是解渴。

People will choose not to love the food when they are hungry， will choose not to love when they are lonely， because the melon is not sweet， but quench their thirst.

十一、別像個(gè)怨婦一樣到處挑刺，不清楚的事情不要評(píng)論，與你無關(guān)的事情不要抨擊，三觀正一點(diǎn)，愛你的人才多一點(diǎn)。

Don't like a dissatisfied housewife like everywhere pick on， not clear things do not comment， and you have nothing to do with things do not attack， three view a bit， love your talent more.

十二、你要學(xué)會(huì)去放下曾經(jīng)傷害過你的每個(gè)人，正因?yàn)檫@些傷害豐富了你的閱歷，圓滿了你的人生。傷害也是成長(zhǎng)的一部分，我們都要經(jīng)歷。

You have to learn to let go of everyone who has hurt you in the past， because the hurt has enriched your experience and completed your life. Hurt is part of growing up， and we all go through it.

十三、成年人的世界，就是應(yīng)該果斷又干脆，不耽誤任何人，不消耗任何人，不浪費(fèi)任何人，這是一種善良。

The adult world， should be decisive and crisp， do not delay anyone， do not consume anyone， do not waste anyone， this is a kind of kindness.

十四、你不過是失去了一個(gè)錯(cuò)的人，卻也繞開了一段錯(cuò)誤的人生，傷心后要記得慶幸。

You just lost a wrong person， but also bypassed a wrong section of life， sad after remember to rejoice.

十五、小時(shí)候以為最浪漫的事，是一個(gè)人走很遠(yuǎn)的路去看另一個(gè)人，現(xiàn)在明白最浪漫的事，是一個(gè)人不管走多遠(yuǎn)的路，心里想念的都是同一個(gè)人。

When I was young， thought the most romantic thing， is a person walking a long way to see another person， now understand the most romantic thing， is a person no matter how far away the road， the heart is the same person.

十六、讓自己忙一點(diǎn)，忙到?jīng)]有時(shí)間去思考無關(guān)緊要的事，很多事情就這樣悄悄地淡忘了。
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Keep yourself busy， too busy to think about unimportant things， so many things quietly forgotten.

十七、被人理解是幸運(yùn)的，但不被理解未必不幸。一個(gè)把自己的價(jià)值完全寄托于他人的理解上面的人，往往并無價(jià)值?！車?guó)平

To be understood is lucky， but not to be understood is not necessarily unfortunate. A person who places his value solely on the understanding of others is often worthless. - zhou guoping

十八、從今天開始，做個(gè)難相處的人，盡情盡興地給討厭的人甩臉子，光明正大給喜歡的人說情話，情愿少活幾年，只想痛快一點(diǎn)。

From today on， be a difficult person， enjoy beating the face of the person you hate， talk fair and square to the person you like， and be willing to give up a few years of your life just to be happy.

十九、不抱怨，靠自己！因?yàn)榫昧四憔蜁?huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)，抱怨除了擾亂你和別人的心情，啥用都沒有。

Don't complain， rely on yourself! Because over time you will find that complaining does nothing but upset you and others.

二十、不要奢望別人會(huì)給你什么，不努力什么都沒有，別人再有，不如自己有，努力得來的是應(yīng)該，別人給的是驚喜！

Don't expect others will give you what， not hard what all have， others have， as oneself have， efforts to get is should， others give is a surprise!

二十一、別人說你好的時(shí)候別往心里去，否則說你不好了，你也會(huì)當(dāng)真。這個(gè)世界，說你好和不好的可以來自同一批人。成年人，撿對(duì)自己有用的聽就好了?！獜堭╁?/span>

Don't take it to heart when people say you are good， otherwise you will take it seriously. The world， say you and bad can come from the same people. Adults， listen to what works for you. - Zhang Haochen

二十二、你可以做一個(gè)善良的人，但不用對(duì)沒必要的人善良，記住一句話：人心換人心是人都懂的道理。

You can be a kind person， but do not need to be kind to the people who do not need to， remember a word: the heart for the heart is the truth that people understand.

二十三、日子一天天過去，討厭的人會(huì)帶著討人厭的話離開，喜歡的人會(huì)帶著美好的事到來。把目光放在別處，灑脫還給自己。

As the days go by， the annoying people will leave with the annoying words， and the people they like will come with the wonderful things. Look elsewhere， free and easy back to themselves.

二十四、當(dāng)你在猶豫的時(shí)候，這個(gè)世界就很大；當(dāng)你勇敢踏出第一步的時(shí)候，這個(gè)世界就很小。等到有一天你變成了你喜歡的自己的時(shí)候，誰還會(huì)質(zhì)疑你的選擇不靠譜呢？你已經(jīng)變成更好的你了，一定會(huì)遇到更好的人的。你是誰，就會(huì)遇到誰。

When you hesitate， the world is big; When you take the first step， the world is small. When one day you become the person you like， who will doubt that your choice is not reliable？ You've become a better you， and you're bound to meet better people. You will meet who you are.